When you think of home schooling or distance education you may imagine scenes of creative children sitting under shady trees enthusiastically working on projects while a calm and wise parent floats along in the back ground somewhere, offering advice and equally enthusiastic support.
At times it might look like this but mostly the reality is quite different. In our case anyway.
For the past seven years I have taught one or both of our children through School of the Air. Our school has constantly provided steady support and a strong sense of community but delivering school at home as a parent is a challenging job. Basing school at home means that almost every aspect of our lives including farm work, house work, bookwork, meal preparation, appointments, travelling and other projects have to be juggled around school. It can be relentless and requires a good dose of discipline and self-motivation.
As this school year begins, for the first time both our children are heading off to a main stream primary school. This will involve a considerable amount of travelling each day which isn’t ideal but as with many aspects of life, not every scenario fits perfectly. It is a case of weighing up the options and following a path that feels right. I think most families living in rural or remote areas would agree that educating our children is one of the more challenging aspects of living where we live.
This year I get a chance to just be a parent again, without the constant shift between schooling and parenting. More importantly my children now both have the chance to interact on a face to face level with their friends and teachers. While I will always be grateful for the time I have spent with our children in their young years I feel like I can no longer face the accompanying mountains of educational paper, the arguments over sentence writing, the repetition or the constant juggle. I feel as if our time for school at home is up and it is time to hand the reins over to someone else.
Looking forward I plan to get involved with our new schooling scenario, but this time I will be at arm’s length from the actual teaching and day to day lessons. I plan to get reacquainted with my neglected garden. I am looking forward to reclaiming some office and cupboard space. I am going to continue writing and taking photos for both my blog and Graziher and seek out new opportunities in these areas. Right at the back of my imagination I have thoughts about re-visiting my little baking business or perhaps something else.
Life continually changes and this week will be a very big change in our house. But, with uniforms and lunch boxes ready and plans for new ventures in my mind, we’ve got this.
Are you facing change this year?
Have you got the balance right?
Do you bake something comforting in times of change? I think I will and it will probably involve white flour and sugar or both.
Happy Sunday, friends x
Judy Cinerari
Good luck.
Jane S
Thank you Judy!
ewe beauty
well done Jane… its not an easy job, and you have made the right decision… I would have jumped at that opportunity ! here’s to a great year ahead for the kids xx
Jane S
Thanks Trish…you did a much longer innings than me! Time will tell x
Christina
Hi Jane
I love reading your blog and always look forward to each post from The Shady Baker. Thank you for your wonderful stories of life on your farm, with the highs and the lows. And can’t wait to hear about the next chapter in your life!
Jane S
Thank you so much Christina, I appreciate you calling in!
Kate
Good luck for a smooth transition ‘Shady’ family. We are juggling some schooling changes here too… milestones!
I hope you enjoy whatever direction this change takes you in too Jane and I look forward to hearing about your new adventures xx
Jane S
Good luck for your milestones too Kate…I have been thinking of your crew both heading off to the world of high school x
Chookyblue
Big changes……. I just finished yr 12DE….. Never thought I would make it at times……… We only did from yr 9 but it sure is a challenge trying to balance work life school and the farm…….. Goodluck and enjoy your new freedom…….. And goodluck to the kids…. What years are they in…….
Jane S
Thank you Chooky. I completely take my hat off to you for tackling Yr 12 through DE. I cannot even imagine. My children are about to start Year 6 & Year 3. All going to plan they will head off to boarding school for the senior years but we will deal with one year at a time.
Maria Leadbeatter
Hope all goes well both for the kids and for yourself. We are on our 2nd last year of DE and every year have threatened of sending them back to school but haven’t had the courage. Enjoy your new “space” and “time”.
Jane S
Thank you Maria, as I have said to other kind readers, time will tell. Good luck for your year ahead!
Kate
I hope the transition is a smooth one, and I am sure you’ve already done the hard thinking to know whether the decision is right for you and the family. Sometimes it’s the decision that’s hardest and everything just follow that.
Jane S
Thank you Kate, I appreciate your wise words.
Kate
Well done Jane! You’re a better woman than me! I couldn’t have done what you’ve done an taught my kids, they’ve always been so strongly independent that I’ve felt they have needed the influence of other teachers to help in guiding them.
Main stream schooling really is a joint venture between the school and parents working together to teach their children. And it’s so much easier when you are no longer mum and teacher!
Jane S
Not really Kate…we all just do what we have to do, don’t we? In saying that, I am looking forward to both children having some more external mentors and influences. Hopefully they are mostly positive! Good luck for your school year ahead also x
Annie Bart
I’m with you Jane, white flour and sugar are a must sometimes! I’m sure your new routine will fall into place quickly and you will soon wonder how ever you fitted school and everything else in. I often reflect on that having had 3 on DE many moons ago. Time to reclaim some of your other passions in that time slot now. Good luck and enjoy.
Jane S
Thank you Annie, as I just said to Trish…you did a much longer innings than me! Full credit to you! Time will tell but everyone seems positive about the change at this point x
Anne
Sounds like big changes ahead. How long will the school run take?
I can’t imagine what distance education must be like – it always sounds like incredibly hard work and involves a degree of dedication and discipline that I’d find very hard.
Baking bread today, though I suspect there will be something in the oven later that contains a quantity of white flour and sugar. It is Sunday, after all.
Jane S
Hello Anne. The children are catching a bus service which will be around 50 minutes at either end of the day. It is a lot of time but I know other children adapt to this travelling time. How was your bread? Delicious I am sure.
Glenda
One door opens as another closes …. I bet the kids are excited to be with other people their own age and for all the new experiences that await.
Jane S
Thanks Glenda, so far so good!
Sally
Well done Jane, I sure both the kids will enjoy and continue to enjoy to journey they’re are on as will you!
It sure can be very challenging being the Mum and supervisor. You know the change I have made and I look forward to the challenge of juggling two different schools but am a little daughnted with the 3rd child joining the schoolroom!! We will make it no doubt. Enjoy everything about this year xx
Jane S
Thanks Sally, I have been thinking of you! Such a big job! I hope its going well so far. Hope to see you soon. x
Mimi
Great post. I home schooled for a while, but not because I live in the middle of nowhere – it was because I was so exasperated over the poor quality of our public school system. And I’ve never had more fun. Unfortunately, my older child really craved and needed social interaction, more than what she was getting during “school” hours, that I gave in. But we changed to a Montessori, and that was good. My younger child probably could have remained home-schooled through high school!
Jane S
Thanks Mimi, that is interesting. We all face different challenges with regard to schooling don’t we?
Suzie
Remote living certainly has loads of challenges for you Jane….but luckily you get to enjoy the beautiful landscape and farming lifestyle…I look forward to reading about your new adventures and I’m sure your garden will be grateful for some TLC x
Jane S
Thanks Suzie, we all face challenges no matter where we live, don’t we? Thank you for calling in x
Kate
Oh my goodness, this is such a huge change for your family. I’m so excited for you all. My kids have an hour’s travel time at either end of the school day and they do just fine. It’s just part of their day. I’m so excited to see what you get up to with all of your extra hours. x
Jane S
Thanks for your reassuring words Kate, it really does mean a lot x