My Spirit of Christmas

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How do you sum up the spirit of Christmas?  Is it the tinsel and the turkey or something more than that?

Earlier this week one of my lovely aunties contacted me enquiring whether certain parts of our family would be on their own at Christmas time.  She was concerned about them and although she has plenty of her own matters and logistics to deal with, wanted to make sure that they wouldn’t be alone on the day.  That’s it for me, the spirit of Christmas wrapped up in generosity and unwavering tolerance.  To my aunt who may be reading, you set a fine example for the rest of us to follow regardless of how the plans unfold.

Homemade gifts

While my family all get along reasonably well, we are also slightly fragmented and spread far and wide.  It is a pleasant thought, but in reality we just aren’t the type of family who gather blissfully around the table each Christmas.  We tend to catch up in smaller chunks, breaking it down into manageable pieces of family time.  This year there will be yabby catching, dam swimming, friends calling in and of course, Lego construction.

How about giving to a charity?  This is something else I believe in and each Christmas we donate small toys and food to local charities.

Gingerbread men

Lastly for me it is about homemade gifts.  Everyone knows I love to bake and to be able to give away a little part of my heart in something buttery and sugary tied up with string feels more meaningful than unwanted items that need to be stored and dealt with.

White cosmos

How do you roll at Christmas?

Blissful, raucous family lunches or perhaps at quiet day at home?

I know at least one dear reader doesn’t celebrate Christmas at all.

Tinsel and turkey with all the trimmings or something more low key?

Happy Friday, friends x

21 Comments

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    Judy Cinerari

    December 15, 2017

    We will be camping by the beach at Coffs Harbour with my two children and their families. Leaving Melbourne tomorrow and I just can’t wait. Enjoy Christmas with your family. Cheers Judy

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      Jane S

      December 16, 2017

      Sounds lovely Judy! Merry Christmas to you.

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    Susie

    December 15, 2017

    Hi Jane,
    It is always so refreshing to receive your blogs and share a small taste of your country life. Im a country tragic who lives in the city but dreams 25 hours a day of the country, and also loves to bake and give goodies for gifts. My friends and family this year will be receiving preserved lemons, marmalade, quince jelly and glaze and shortbread. Also olive oil from a friends’ grove. The foodie side of Christmas is magical and the pudding and cake have been maturing for weeks! Ham and turkey ordered so off to the market for fruit and veg next week will conclude another year of Christmas preparation.
    As a lover of sourdough ( and butter and cream!), I have been wanting to try making some and will make sure it is one of my new year resolutions that will remain unbroken!
    A small Christmas here with 3 of 4 adult children joining us for a relaxing and delicious Christmas Day.
    I wish you and your family a wonderful Festive Season,
    Warm wishes,
    Susie X

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      Jane S

      December 16, 2017

      Thank you so much Susie. Your home made/grown gifts sound perfect & delicious! Good luck with the sourdough baking. Enjoy your Christmas, I appreciate your kind comments. x

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    Tinoftea

    December 15, 2017

    I love these little biscuits!
    Here it is the first christmas my boys are old enough to enjoy so i’m so happy and can’t wait to settle some family traditions… I don’t have my parents anymore and my family is in Scotland while we are in France so there is only my man’s family, we offered to invite them on the 25th but they weren’t so keen on that (which was a bit sad!!) so we’ll just have the 24th evening together and spend a lovely 25th all the four of us at home… it”s going to be a beautiful day i’m very excited! So many recipes to try!! : )

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      Jane S

      December 16, 2017

      Thank you! Family traditions and gatherings can be tricky to negotiate cant they? I am sure you will have a beautiful day. I appreciate your kind comments.

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    Anne

    December 15, 2017

    Pretty little wreaths Jane and your biscuits look delicious. Home made gifts are the best aren’t they?

    Raucous family gatherings for us (38 on Boxing Day!). With both sides of our family involved in Christmas linked businesses, there’s little tinsel and glitter involved but turkey with all the trimmings, some good walks and lots of silly games.

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      Jane S

      December 16, 2017

      Thank you Anne. Enjoy your day and Merry Christmas to you and your family. I appreciate your ongoing support and look forward to reading more of your adventures in 2018 x

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    Mimi

    December 15, 2017

    A beautiful post and gorgeous photos. Out holidays have always been about our small family being together. We have two grown daughters now, one is married with two children, the other still single, but she will still fly in from NYC in order to come home. We have no extended family, as much as it was a dream of mine, I’m completely happy with 5 people at the table, and two grand children. I always made it special for my daughters growing up, with the decorations, the foods, the smells, the music, the presents, even through poor times. Fortunately little kids have no idea if their parents are poor or millionaires when it comes to Christmas, I feel, because it’s not about what’s under the tree, it’s about what’s happening in the home.

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      Jane S

      December 16, 2017

      I agree with your wise words Mimi, thank you. I appreciate you calling in and wish you a wonderful Christmas x

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    Sam

    December 16, 2017

    Hi Jane,
    Lovely post, as ever; your christmas preparations look gorgeous. Christmas here is all about family and we’ll have my parents and my husband’s mum with us. It’s all rather traditional, with turkey and pudding, but we like it that way. Homemade gifts are always a joy to give and receive. I plan to gift a few paintings if I can get my act together and do them! I wish you and your family a wonderful Christmas and very happy New Year. Sam x

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      Jane S

      December 16, 2017

      Thank you Sam, so lovely to hear from you! Your traditional Christmas sounds just beautiful. Paintings would be such a thoughtful, personal gift. Wishing you a wonderful Christmas x

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    Annie Bartholomaeus

    December 16, 2017

    Hi Jane. I love Christmas cooking and just gathering of family and or friends. A lovely time to reflect on the spirit of giving and to remember that in fact we all give little gifts each and every day and often we forget this joy. A stop and take stock time….I love the excitement of it and then the sharing on the day. Gold! x

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      Jane S

      December 21, 2017

      Merry Christmas Annie, I hope you have a lovely day x

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    Lynda

    December 21, 2017

    Hi Jane,
    I’ve found you via Sam at A Coastal Plot – what a lovely insight into Christmas on the far side of the planet. Yabby-catching? My mind boggles. Thank you for this dose of virtual sunshine on the winter solstice.

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      Jane S

      December 21, 2017

      Thank you for calling in Lynda. Stay warm and Merry Christmas to you.

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    kate

    December 22, 2017

    I am on the train into the city for a day of work, and our family Christmas celebration is on Sunday. There will be grandchildren running around (and raiding my wardrobe where they have discovered a stash of vintage sunnies, hats, coats, gloves and other such fun to dress up in) and an easy spread of cut fruit, cheese, biscuits, bakery-bought croissants in the morning and a homemade pavlova – dripping with cream, mangoes and passionfruit, to wrap the day up.

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      Jane S

      December 27, 2017

      Sounds like a perfect (and delicious!) celebration Kate.

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    Francesca

    December 23, 2017

    Hi Jane, I’m back to a family event here this year. It has taken me all my life just to have Christmas with my own children- and not a cast of thousands, even if they are related. And so, for the first time ever, at the age of 67, I am having the Christmas lunch I’ve always wanted. Just the immediate family – now 14 of us. Have a great day, followed by a gentle January.

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      Jane S

      December 27, 2017

      Sounds lovely Francesca! Merry Christmas.

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